"Brithish Women Beware of Turkish Men"

A review of Marmaris by Janette Morris written on Friday 7th of May 2010

Hello My name Janette and i would like to tell you about my horrable exerence with a turkish man as I was unlucky enough to meet a turkish cyrout man and foolish enough to belieive him.. i met Abidin Sonmez here in the uk in 2003.. when I met him he was working in his cousions kebab shop he told me he was treated almost like a slave. He seemed so kind and I felt so sorry for him. As some days he worked 18hr days. He didnt have much money but he never asked me for any. and was very kind to my son.who was becomeing very fond of Abidin. in fact he was like the perfect boyfriend. And was allways so very thoughtfull to me. But my friends were concerned when i told them i was seeing a turkish cyprot guy cause of the horror stories you here about these guys But I defened him. and he would say to me," when i am with you in 100 years from now they will be sorry for the bad things they say".. I was seeing him for a year and He asked me to marry him and we went to north cyprus to sort out his paperwork and get married. i thought he had a work visa. I didnt know that he was infact illigle in the uk and had to go to the north cyprus embassy in London to get a pass to allow him to go home to his country as he didnt have a passport. we married i became his sponser. i went back home he stayed there and waited for his marrage visa to come through.. he didnt have to wait long but he didnt have much money and i was sendingin some over which he promised to give me back when he got into the uk and got a job. he came here he only had £5.00 and a bag of things that was it. i kept him while he found a job. he was working part time and didnt have much money, so he didnt give me any. i worked full time and i would come home to find him there doing nothing just sitting there smokeing and watching the tv. very soon i was seeing a new ugly side to this so called kind careing man. we got into debt i took out loans in my name to pay them off he said when he got a full time job he would pay them. he didnt get a job. iwas getting deeper in debt. £10,000 and was strugglying to pay he by this time was getting moody and didnt want to bother with my son who he use to call his buddie. now he sat most of the time alone watching tv and takeing money from me. but when i asked him to leave he cryed and said sorry. So me being stupid i let him stay and i didnt think about the marrage visa and off course he needed to stay married to me to be allowed to stay in the uk. After 2 years being here with a marrage visa Abidin applyed and got perment residecy to stay in the uk. He didnt need to be nice now and he didnt need me anymore thats when he really started to show me his true peronality. And with my help he got a full time job. good i thought hes finaly found a job he can start takeing some of the debts from now maybe now he wont be so moody to live with and at the time i was ill and working full time was a real struggle.. but he didnt change for the better he just got worse. Then one night he came home from work eat his tea and said im leaving you. And said dont try to get me to pay for the debt im your husband now so your lucky im not going to take your house.he packed his cloths and went.bye he said dont try to find me im never comeing back not now not in the future not ever. the day he left i was just out hospital i,d had an operation i was ill i only came out of hospital 3 days before. i didnt have money i wasnt working and i still had our loan to pay off. i asked him to help me and he said here is £200 dont ask me for anything els. and he just calmly booked a taxie and left. i could hardly walk. i had a chest infection. and pulersy in my lung and i was on my own. i phoned my friend she came to help me. and i couldnt believe this so called kind careing man who told me he loved me 10 times a day could leave me ill knowing i was sick then and couldnt work and up to my eys in debt that he had promised to pay when he had a job. Or at least offer to pay back his half of it..That was three years ago. since then i had to sell my home to pay off the debts and start again. my story has a happy ending as i met a loverly man called Michael and we have been married for a year and ive never been happier. Him i havent seen, hes still in my home town. on the make and on the take from other white women who like me was dull enough to believe the crap and bull ****. But now i know how bad they are and how cold and cruel they can be. i would warn every brithish women to be on there guard and leave well alone. Our men are so much better. they may not be as good at giving the bull **** but they dont want to use you to get in here. And as i found out with Abidin Sonmez turkish men are cold ugly inside and cruel and they will do whatever it takes for as long as takes to get what they want in the end. and it is either money for them or a visa to stay in the uk. My turkish Xhusband got what he wanted and it took him 3 years and 9mths to get it. Thank god he didnt have to wait longer otherwise i still maybe would have him hanging around me like an out of date old pork pie that should have been bined. I feel though maybhave been worse i only had debts of £10,000 some brithish women are £100,000 down cause they were unlucky enough to be in the wronge pace at the right time to meet these men...Any women who reads this and is thinking of either going to turkey for a holiday or meetin a turkish guy over here should read this and beware they will use you. .

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