A review of Marmaris by Janette written on Wednesday 30th of March 2011
Ive read your review and your comments about the other lady being heartbroken and bitter and you said,"You guessed she had her reasons".... i to have written a review on here as unlike you i wasnt so lucky with my turkish x husband... who after we got married turned out to be a lazy ugly man who wouldnt do anything for me or my teenage son who he use to call buddie when i was going out with him.. i didnt meet him in Turky i met him here in the uk and i was seeing him for a year before i aggreed to go to North Cyprus to get married.. then when he had a visa to come back to the UK..He came back to the UK with £5.00 of british money and a bag of cloths i tried my very best to help and keep us all going but as time was going on i could see he wasnt makeing an real effort to find work and was quite happy with me working full time and doing everything around the house i could see a new side of this man . In the end we found him a part time job 16 hrs a week and didnt want to give me any money and we lived on my wages he kept his to himself. and while i came home he would be sitting there nothing done for me or in the home he was there sitting waiting for me to cook food and smokeing turkish cigerettes and drinking black tea. when i found him a full time job he came home everyday as if he has just come back from the war totaly unbelievable the way he flouced around when he came home from work....saying he was worn out im like your only a porrter how are you so tired.. The debts where mounting i was ill i needed an operaton we needed to sort all the credit cards and loans out so he needed to work aswell and start giveing me money to help pay the debts off with me.. i got a loan to cover everything to pay off things he said he would start helping but we would row when his wages came in as he wouldnt want to give anything to me and and when i said you will start giveing me money he sulked by this time i could see what he really was like...Then when he had his permanant residence for the UK he left me.. Id come out of hospital id been home for 2 days he came home from work eat his tea and went. i asked him where are you going he said im leaving you... id just come out of hospital with pulercy and an operation so i could hardly stand i was so weak. and with no job and £10.0000 of debt so not much money at all...So off he went didnt give me anything I spoke to him on the phone once asking him about the debt he said im your husband now you are lucky i dont try and get your home from you sell it i wont pay you a penny he then changed his mobile nu so i didnt speak to him again ..But i had to get a solicitor to sort this out divorce him as soon as poss, and get him to write a clean break order saying he wont try to take my home hone as long as i pay the debts... Clever man id only been married to him for 2 years and 6mths when he left but he had it all planned out. So i had to sell my home to pay the debts off. Myself and my son who was then 15 where homeless.... It was the woest time of my life everything i worked hard for before i met him was gone....
So please dont rave about you kind careing turkish man as he really is a rare gem ur lucky you could have so easy been another horror story like mine and so many other british women's sad true stories.. many many others have met these men and havent been so lucky.... im remarried now to a great british guy. so out of bad comes good.
I havent seen or heard from him in 4 years but god knows what hes doing if hes in the UK His name is ABIDIN SONMEZ i bet there are other women hes stung for money.. But it really is criminal what these guys do and get away with... All the warnings about them yet it still carries on...It makes me so sad to think that theres still so many british girls being used and abused by these guys for either money visa or sex or maybe all of them
they will wait to get what they want in the end these guys are very patient they have plans they have grown up poor and they grasp everything and they dont get bogged down or side tracked with feelings or emotions they only do whats best for them. Hope everyone who is thinking of dateing one of them remebers that ... .
read my review from May 2010 .
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